Kissing On Your First Date – What You Need to Know!
Whether you want to kiss, whether you don’t, this is a question you can’t avoid at the end of your date. Sometimes kissing can be really simple and without any deeper meaning, in other situations it can really stir up your feelings. Kissing is always an intimate act, and it is a sign of trust: you’re exposing your neck, while your eyes are closed. It makes you emotionally vulnerable as well.
Because it is such an intimate act, some people see kissing as a prelude to sex, and will kiss only if they are prepared to go all the way. Others think kissing is an activity in itself, having no connection to sex. They can kiss for hours, and then say goodnight. So it is really important to know the difference between a quick kiss that has no deeper meaning and a serious kiss.
You must know you are not obligated to kiss when saying goodbye. You can give your date a hug, which is similar to a kiss in lot of ways. A hug can have a quite wide range of different meanings, from friendship to passion, depending on duration ant the position of your bodies. Or you have the option of shaking hands: with this gesture your message is that you don’t want to move too fast. Handshaking can be misinterpreted, as your date can think you are too cold.
Experts say there are at least 25 kinds of kisses, with 25 different meanings. You don’t have to know all of them: your date doesn’t know either, so you don’t have necessarily do things by the book. There is no doubt you will figure out what to do. However, you will have to make the difference between a quick kiss and a serious kiss.
One can give and receive quick kisses on the cheek several times a day, when meeting people. This is part of the saluting ritual in many places. If your date gives you a kiss on the cheek at the end that means a simple goodbye: he/she doesn’t think of anything serious at the moment. A kiss on your cheek when you meet is different: it means you can expect for more.
There is no way you can’t see a serious kiss is coming. You will notice the sizzling air between you two, and the body language of your partner will be quite easy to read. A serious kiss is always sensual, but doesn’t necessarily mean sex is the next step. However, because serious kissing is a full-body experience, you can be sure that sex is not very far away.
Usually men think serious kissing as a part of sexual games. Women don’t necessarily think that, and quite often they will give long and passionate kisses, and then just leave.
If you want to know if there is a kiss coming or not, there are certain signs to look for: you are facing each other, with no intention to suddenly end the date, looking into each other’s eyes.
But remember, kissing is not mandatory. There are other ways to say goodbye, like shaking hands, hugging or even waving at each other.
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